How to Erase some break up reasons?

Okay, many people have a relationship, but they're finish in the middle of their relationship. after they broke up, sometimes they still have feeling to their EX. well, many reasons to break up. such as we feels boring with our relationship, we feels like we're not good enough for our BF/GF, or maybe because our BF/GF too arrogant.

okay, first we're going to talk about: Boring feelings when we're in a relationship. Boring.. what is boring means for you? is that you feels like, your relationship not going right? like maybe, you never dating together, or maybe talk together such an normal couple? well, i think that's a usual things. everybody have a different personalities, you couldn't expect you're couple same as your friend's couple. Each of them have a different personalities, maybe your fiend's couple could be so romantic when they're dating, but you're couple couldn't being romantic when you're together. But, you have to understand his/her personality. Well, I know you must be feel so angry or disappointed first time, but as the time going you'll get it and you'll enjoy it. Just give him/her understanding. So, actually you could erase BORING feeling in your relationship if each of you always understanding each other personality^^

Now, we're going to talk about: We feels like we're not good enough for our couple. Hmm.. I think you have to erase that feeling from your mind. 'Cause when you thought that you're not good enough for Him/Her, they're might know about it. They would thought that you're not PROUD of YOURSELF. You couldn't be unpretentious. If you started thought about it, you have to try the best to make you good enough to be with your couple. So, do your best to make your couple happy.. ^^

Now this is the most dangerous reason! Arrogant. i know how it feels when we have a BF/GF and they're so arrogant. If you're in this situation, you better finish it with cold-head. When your couple being arrogant you couldn't snap at him/her, if you snap at him/her that'll make him/her more arrogant. You better give him/her understanding and talk together with cold-head, that's the best way to reach the best answer. if they're still do that, you tell her/him how your feel because of her/him arrogant personality, give them understanding. And remember, tell them with cultured language.. ^^

OH! and, when you decided to break up, you have to make sure you'll never regret that. 'cause, when you broke up you have no right to forbid them to get close with other boys/girls. But, when you already broke up, and your EX have a relationship with your BEST FRIEND, you have to let them. Remember regret always come at the end. So, thinking about break up's impacts, make sure you're ready to lose them.

okay, i hope it'll be useful for you all..

Thx